My Weight-loss Journey

My weight loss journey has been a battle over the years. The urge to start writing this blog was because I finally succeeded in losing weight and keeping it off. The difference this time is that my weight didn’t bounce straight back up when I completed the program I was on. I’ve always been interested in promoting a healthy lifestyle through my nursing career. Now I want to help other people towards health through this medium. My weight is now in the healthy range for my age, and I plan to stay at this weight.

I was painfully thin as a child. I didn’t start to gain weight until after having children in my mid 20’s. My weight was still within a normal range until my 40’s. Medications, health issues and grieving all contributed to weight gain. This weight gain escalated after menopause. The battle to remain a healthy weight intensified with chronic back pain and a congenital heart defect.

My Previous Attempts at Weight Loss Were Unsuccessful

Fad diets, especially elimination diets, aren’t successful in the long run because you start craving all the things you can’t have. Whenever I’ve tried a “diet” such as Weight Watchers or Lite n Easy, I’ve been able to lose the weight easily enough. But I’ve always craved things and felt really restricted. So as soon as I stop the diet I put on all the weight plus more! By being able to control my own diet in a healthy way, my efforts to lose weight have succeeded.

Adjusting My Diet Led to Success

The program I was on taught me how to choose food that is lower in calories while being nutritious and filling. This new way allows me to choose my own food so I don’t have to eat food I don’t like. I don’t restrict myself to eating only low fat, low carbohydrate, or low calorie and I don’t give up whole food groups like a lot of diets do. I automatically pick food that fills me up and doesn’t have too many calories, like a big salad. Extra flavour and texture is included like feta cheese, olives, snow peas and roast beetroot, so it’s interesting to my palate. The beauty of it is that you can choose what you like. If you don’t like olives but you love nuts, you can swap them out.

My weight loss journey - Before photo was  taken in Rome in June 2018.  The after photo was taken in November 2019 after I lost 17kg
My weight loss journey – Before photo was taken in Rome in June 2018.
The after photo was taken in November 2019 after I lost 17kg

A few weekends ago I packed up a large box of clothes that I no longer fit. Some of them are brand new because I had bought a lot of clothes thinking I would get to a certain weight and that would be it, but I just kept on losing weight. During this weight loss journey I’ve gone down about 3 sizes. It starts to get expensive when you have to replace your whole wardrobe twice in a year! But I am proud of what I’ve achieved and I do feel much better at this weight.

Why do I feel weird when people compliment me on my weight loss?


I don’t like getting all that attention, but people are constantly telling me I’ve lost more weight. Even though I’ve been pretty steady for the last few months. They ask how I did it and probably expect me to name a fad diet or gastric bypass or something. When I told them I count calories and cut my portions down they seem disappointed! I think people want to know that there is a foolproof way, or an easy way to lose weight.

My weight loss journey.  Before photo was taken in October 2018 when I weighed 83.5kg.  The after photo was taken in October 2019 when I weighed 66.1kg
My weight loss journey. Before photo was taken in October 2018 when I weighed 83.5kg.
The after photo was taken in October 2019 when I weighed 66.1kg

I Want to Inspire Other People to Live a Healthy Lifestyle

Because I have had a history of yo-yo weight since I was in my 20’s, it is now my goal to help other people to achieve the success I have had. My weight loss journey is the drive behind me starting this blog, so that I can help other people to live a healthy lifestyle in their 40’s, 50’s and beyond. It is not a “diet”, but it is a change towards living your best life with a little advice on how to achieve it. I don’t have all the answers, but I may be able to help in some way.

What I won’t be able to help you with is information on beauty products, anti aging treatments such as fillers and injectables, and supplements designed for weight loss. I’m no expert on fitness and exercise regimes either. There are lots of other people who are! As I have said before, I did not go to a gym. My sole exercise is walking the dogs nearly every day.

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Losing weight is a Marathon not a Sprint

You may have heard the term Losing Weight Is a Marathon Not a Sprint. For long-term weight-loss, a slow and steady decrease in body weight has been shown to lead to a more successful outcome long-term. Many “diets” cause rapid weight loss but this is because of severe reduction in calories and restricting whole food categories. The weight-loss cannot be sustained long-term because the body has been starved of vital nutrients.

This month marks one year since I weighed my heaviest. I have lost over 17kg and managed to sustain the weight loss for 6 months. I didn’t use any fad diet or expensive program to do it. In this blog I will be sharing tips on how to lose weight as part of this blog, but for now I will just say that to lose weight, you need to keep at it. Rapid weight loss using fad diets that cut out major food groups do work, however I believe that they can’t be sustained long term. Using my own experience, I managed to lose weight many times in the past, but as soon as I stopped “dieting” I put that weight straight back on, plus more. My yo-yo weight was not healthy.

Seek Professional Advice Prior to any Weight-Loss Program

I am not a dietician, and I urge anyone wanting to lose weight to see their doctor, and a dietician before doing so. Once you get some professional advice, start your weight loss, and stick to it. I was losing about 500grams per week which is a safe, steady way to do it.

I did get professional advice – my doctor had to give me medical clearance. A free program sponsored by the Queensland Government called Get Healthy gave me all the professional help I needed. My eligibility was due to me being at high risk of developing diabetes. Even if you’re not eligible for their programs, there is a lot of free information on their website. My weight loss success was even featured in their website – see my story here.

The photo that spurred me to lose weight - at my son's graduation in 2018.  I was at my heaviest
This is the photo that spurred me on to lose weight. It was at my son’s graduation in 2018

My final decision to lose this weight forever came about after my son graduated and I saw how hideous I looked in all the photos. I had bought an outfit in Malta and had saved it for this special occasion but when I saw how I looked in it I was deeply ashamed of just how big I had become. Now every time I look at my son’s graduation photos I am reminded of just how far I’ve come. Sometimes that’s all it takes to start you on your journey.

Losing weight is a marathon, not a sprint.  How to achieve long lasting weight-loss.  Image shows a young woman working out
Losing weight is a marathon, not a sprint. How to achieve long lasting weight-loss.

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Update 24 June 2020 – It’s now well over a year since I reached my goal weight and I have sustained the weight loss using the same principles. In the last year I’ve had several health issues but I’ve stayed at a healthy weight despite being limited in my ability to exercise. If you’re struggling with your weight, or you’d like to mention a method that has worked for you, please comment. It’s an issue that a lot of people battle with and I’d love to support you on your journey.

Please refer to my disclaimer and note that I advise you to get medical advice before starting any fitness or weight loss program. Best of luck on your journey.

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