Transcript of Podcast Episode 2
Welcome to the BRCA gene mutation and cancer awareness podcast. I am Christina Henry of Midlifestylist.com. I am a Registered Nurse with a BRCA2 gene mutation. My podcast will raise awareness of BRCA 1 and 2 gene mutations and their link to an increased cancer risk. BRCA gene mutations affect males and females equally, but there isn’t a lot of awareness in the community of the cancers that male carriers are at risk of. My podcast aims to change that. I will also discuss other topics of interest such as genetic counseling and testing, cancer screening and prophylactic surgery. If you would like to know more about BRCA 1 and 2 gene mutations, this podcast is for you. Thanks for joining me.
Being diagnosed with a BRCA2 Gene Mutation – My Story
Many of you have found this podcast through a search for BRCA. You may already follow my blog Midlifestylist.com. I have written quite a lot about my BRCA journey. But I haven’t told my story of how I was diagnosed.
I first heard about BRCA over 10 years ago. Being a nurse, I was aware of families where breast cancer affected multiple generations. I worked in a surgical ward where breast, ovarian and prostate cancer patients were cared for.
My Cousin Has a BRCA2 Gene Mutation
One of my patients happened to be my first cousin. We are from a very large family – I have about 52 first cousins, many of whom are much older than me. This cousin is almost a whole generation older – closer to my parents’ age than mine. I didn’t know her very well because she grew up in Australia, while I grew up in New Zealand.
This cousin had had a very extensive surgery prophylactically. She told me about the BRCA gene mutation – she has BRCA2. Because both her parents had had BRCA2 cancers it was unclear which side of the family the BRCA2 gene mutation came from. My father’s sister is her mother. Both her parents were deceased. Her mother died from ovarian cancer, and her father had had male breast cancer.
My cousin and I had the same breast surgeon. I had seen him because of some breast lumps that were benign. He recommended that I see a genetic counselor. At the time my only direct family that had had cancer was my mother who passed away from metastatic brain cancer, unknown primary.
My First Visit to the Genetic Counselor
After looking at my family history, the genetic counselor advised me that there looked to be no evidence of BRCA2 in my branch of the family tree. The test for BRCA at that time was very expensive. I was a single mother of two teenage boys and did not have the means to pay for testing, or for prophylactic surgery for that matter. I decided to continue regular monitoring which meant yearly mammograms and breast ultrasounds.
Over the next few years more cancer cropped up in my family – two siblings and my son had melanomas, and dad had prostate and pancreatic cancer. My breasts were high risk anyway because of dense breast tissue and the lumps. I was always fearful that they were going to diagnose me with breast cancer.
My Second Visit to the Genetic Counselor
Early in 2020 I decided to go back to the genetic counselor because I could never really get it out of my mind. After revisiting my family tree he said that there was a high probability of me having a BRCA2 gene mutation. The test was relatively straightforward because they only had to look at the same genetic mutation as my cousin. It was now covered by Medicare so there was no cost to me.
I was at work when the genetic counselor phoned me with the results. It was not a surprise to me that I had the genetic mutation. I think I was in shock because I did not react at all. He said that my sons would need to be tested as well.
A BRCA2 Positive Result
I was driving home and it hit me – “Oh My God I have given my sons a death sentence”. Tears started streaming down my face and it was a struggle to drive the rest of the way home. How am I going to tell my boys? I had already discussed what I would do with my husband. Because my risks of breast and ovarian cancer were so high, I knew I would have prophylactic surgery. I had already booked the appointment with the gynae-oncologist.
I had to tell my sons in person and as soon as possible. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. Both of them took it really well and were definite in their desire to have the test as well. We all expected my older son to have the BRCA2 gene mutation as well because he had had a melanoma.
My Third Visit to the Genetic Counselor
We went to the genetic counselor as a family. My sons had their blood tests straight away. A few weeks later they each received a letter in the mail and to our surprise, neither of them tested positive. My older son undoubtedly has a gene for melanoma, but we already have skin checks six monthly so there is no reason to look for the gene responsible.
It is such a huge relief that my sons haven’t inherited the BRCA2 gene mutation from me. They have had to watch me go through multiple surgeries, their grandfather died of prostate and pancreatic cancer, and now my brother has prostate cancer as well. It is one glimmer of joy in this journey with BRCA2.
Genetic Counseling and Testing
I feel very grateful that my cousin told me about BRCA2 10 years ago. I could never relax knowing that there was a chance of me having it as well. I am really lucky that she happened to have the same breast doctor and genetic counselor as I do. It made it much easier to get testing done. Because the BRCA2 gene passed down through the male line in my branch of the family there is not the large incidence of breast or ovarian cancer that would alert the doctors.
It was only by deciding to go back to the genetic counselor that the genetic mutation was discovered. Because there have been a lot of advances in research, it is worth being retested if you had a test done some years ago. Some people who were tested negative back then have now been found to have a genetic mutation. Talk to your doctor if you are concerned.
In my next episode I will be discussing genetic counseling and testing. For further information, go to my website Midlifestylist.com and search BRCA. I will be discussing these topics in greater detail. You can read about my personal journey with BRCA2 and prophylactic surgery on the website.
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Shared on Weekend Coffee Linkup on Natalie the Explorer’s blog and Life This Week Linkup on Denyse Whelan’s blog
10 responses to “Being Diagnosed With a BRCA2 Gene Mutation – My Story”
This is such an importnat story Christina and I am in awe of all you’ve gone through! Take care.
Thank you so much Deb, I really appreciate it. Christina
Hi Christina – there’s so much involved – and such a huge step to take when the result is a positive for having the gene. You’ve done amazingly well with your surgery and your recovery (especially after the setbacks you went through).
Hi Leanne, yes I agree, it was a huge step. Thank you so much for your lovely comment. It means a lot, Christina
Good for you to take an active role in your health, Christina. I greatly appreciate you sharing your story and linking with #weekendcoffeeshare. Have a wonderful week!
Thank you so much Natalie. I appreciate the opportunity to share my blog on your Linkup. I hope you have a wonderful week too, Christina
This is a really good post. there are often ‘breast cancer awareness’ campaigns but they really don’t do anything. I actually learnt a bit in this post, not really knowing this gene nor the implications. So this is proper awareness and very worthwhile. I’m glad the surgery went well!
Hi Lydia, thank you for your lovely feedback. I’m so glad you found it helpful and learnt a lot from it. Regards, Christina
Gosh there was a lot for you to absorb over those years and being a nurse would have made it even more intense and worrying. I am so glad that some of the outcomes have been positive and hopeful but it does not detract from the worry and fear. Awareness is key but your story tell us it is much more than getting a regular breast screening happening.
Thank you for linking up for Life This Week. It’s a great community that I enjoy hosting and your posts help make this so! Next week the optional prompt is 24/51 Nourish. 14 June. See you then I hope. Denyse
Hi Denyse, yes it has been a very full-on few years, especially the last couple. Being a nurse makes you more knowledgeable but also more paranoid! We get to see people at their worst, often with advanced cancer so it’s hard not to worry about our own health. I’m glad my goal: to raise awareness, is paying off. Regards, Christina